When it comes to overall population, for sure it's a lot better but the biggest issue here in Vegas is that we get a lot of tourists visiting so that's not always fun to deal with.Īnonymous 05/27/22(Fri)20:47:07 No. >Have to assume your area is at least better than Alabama. Tbh even here there are usually more friends than foes, and the haters are pretty timid. I am living super rural atm in the deep south and I've been out many times with a non-passing transgirl, i'm confident and I shut down people who make inappropriate comments. > es as long as you look cute for me idc about anything else.
Is it helpful to ever start your own threads to find guys? So pretty much create a Discord account, then browse the /fit/ and /lgbt/ boards and put yourself out there by explaining what you're looking for and dropping your discord link? Sound about right?
Gotcha, I don't have a discord so I guess I'll create one lol. See that's the funny thing, I'm not in the south or a backwater town, I like in a somewhat populated area. >where you at? In the south I have heard a lot of people say the same >Just be careful, most people you will meet are harmless but there are dangerous people on here too. I honestly am not on the site all that much and I haven't actually looked at the /fit/ sub all that much so this is news to me if that is true. Isn't /fit/ obsessed with people like you? >yeah i think so just because its such a high concentration of alternative people. Grindr hasn't worked out for me, irl doesn't work all that much for me neither even when I'm at the gym (lol) so hey, why not try here? Maybe there actually are some other muscular guy here (bonus if geeky) who actually like femboys lol. I'm a bit worried about the flakiness but at this point I'm willing to try something new. When you were posting on soc and lgbt, did you just start a thread or were you just looking into other started threads and leaving your info there? There are a lot of stupidly hot lurkers on here but its def harder finding people who will actually meetup and hangout even in regional meetup servers people are too shy >kind of yeah I post sometimes on soc or lgbt and just put no pref.
I'm just saying, I think that it's possible to have feminine style as a man in older age if you know how to dress for your body and can adapt it to look maturer and not like that of a teenager.Īnonymous 05/27/22(Fri)13:06:38 No.
The whole rough skin thing, that only intensifies if you don't moisturize your skin and I've got that down to a science. People tend to act surprised when they learn I'm 30 and they think I'm in my early 20s and I believe this is because I have practiced a skincare routine for years now. I just wear blouses and sweaters and all that stuff and I think I carry it well or rather, I feel confident in it.Īs for skin, I think I'm aging okay. I'm not one of those guys who wears short skirts and thigh highs with sneakers or anything like that. I don't buy into having to change myself just because I'm getting older but rather, it's all about adapting your style.I actually don't even call myself a "Femboy". I'm actually 30 and I think I look quite good, actually a lot better than I did in my early 20s when I was still experimenting and trying to find my personal style. It really depresses me because I'd love to have muscular boyfriend to go to the gym but it seems like this is the one kinda thing that won't ever happen.Īnonymous 05/27/22(Fri)10:53:46 No. I see so many muscular straight guys with all kinds of women, a lot of whom aren't even gym fit. Said, the gay muscular guys tend to only be with each other The straight couples though, they are VARIED. I look at the gym couples at my gym and like what >2413740
It really does make me have imposter syndrome because while I'm proud of myself sticking with the gym for as long as I have and liking the results, the fact that it hasn't helped me attract the kinda guys I like has really discouraged me and makes me wonder if there's any point in continuing when it seems like it won't make a difference. Whenever I would let my Grindr run while I was having a gym session, I never got hit up by any muscular guys, the only guys who ever hit me up were old fat guys who didn't care about fitness at all and frankly it's still like that now. Unfortunately in the 8 years I've been working out consistently in the gym, I have never once met or had any luck with muscular guys at all. I thought that maybe I could have better luck if I started working out and going to the gym myself, you know be a gym femboy and with some luck, maybe attract a muscular guy by sharing this similar interest. I'm another femboy who is really into muscular guys and I haven't had much to any luck at all. 2413795 I can really relate to this thread.